the art of saying sorry..

In the course of your romantic relationship, the occasional disagreement is inevitable. Often one person takes offense to something the other has said or done. In these situations, the most loving thing that a man can do is to admit any errors on his part. Explain your point of view and say you are sorry for any misunderstandings. If you were impatient with your sweetheart, it is time to admit it and say you are sorry. Search her heart and consider what your contribution may have been to the disharmony. Honestly admit to any shortcomings in yourself that you see. If she honestly and tenderly loves you, she will see that you are making an effort to bridge the divide. And more than likely her heart will be softened and she will come out from behind the walls she built up around herself and meet you halfway. Your willingness to admit your part will allow her to consider her own shortcomings and her own imperfections. More often than not a fight is ended when one party decides to seek peace. At that point there is the opportunity for the other party to calm down and to try to come to an understanding and resolution to the conflict.

if ur sweetheart is in a bad mood..

I initially wrote this tip for men, but women can try it too!

If your wife or girlfriend is in a bad mood and she is unresponsive to your efforts to cheer her up, here’s how to turn the situation around. Hold her hands and look deep into her eyes. Tell her that you love her and that you are sorry she isn’t in a particularly good mood. Tell her that you’ve tried everything you know how to cheer her up, that you have been unsuccessful and that you are getting frustrated. Tell her that you long to warmly and lovingly hold her in your arms, but that right now you cannot reach her. Tell her when she is ready you will meet her with open arms. Give her a hug and then leave her alone. Eventually, when she is ready, she will return to your loving arms. In the meantime, you have an opportunity to separate yourself temporarily from the situation. This will allow you to avoid getting further frustrated. You will be refreshed and ready to hold her, talk to her and listen to her when she returns to you.

letter 4 u

Dear mmy,

Here is to a girl I thought I'd never know.The one who stole my heart so innocently,but with care and grace and perfect love. The perfect thought is us together forever. The sweetest word is your name. And the greatest thing is your love. Every silent prayer that has left my mind, all the empty words that have left my mouth and chased my lips, and all the lonely tears that have escaped my eyes have made me who I am, one to love you more. All the times I felt I've found the one, and all the times I've mourned over a bleeding heart, all times I've given it all I've got is are as many as I have found my face in the mud. All the gurls who just wanted me, all the pieces of my self I've given away, all the things I've wished I've done, and all the things I wished I hadn't helps me love you with purity and certainty. All the times we fight feels like we're gambling our lives. I hope we never lose. I love you so much, those five words I tell you so much can't have more meaning than anything else ever possibly could. I love you with all my faults and all my achievements. I love you with all that I am. I love you for who you are. I hope in the quietest of the night when I whisper out to you, you know just what to do. You listen to hear my voice echoing how much I love you.

Love Always,
Ddy

+++eVaN aLmIgHtY+++

we watched Evan almighty at the cineleisure near the curve..i really enjoy the movie..it is sooooo hilarious!!!and there's a lot of value that i've learned..

it is about evan baxter [he is the newsreader that is competing with bruce in BRUCE ALMIGHTY]..even was a successful newsreader when he tried to get involved in politics and lastly he was chosen as the U.S congressman.. as a new congressman, he tried to live like a rich man and get involved with higher power Congressman Long where he wants evan to support his planning to turn a rainforest to a high-class housing area..evan do not really believe in the existence of God..

Later..he became a buzy man and starting to ignore his 3 sons and his wife..one night, he tried praying to God for his help..i remember his praying kinda sound like this:

"hi..hey there god..uh..mmm..i am now a congressman..thanx to you..i have a beatiful house..even though u didnt buy it, but u make the material..i'm just gonna ask u for patience..yeah..that's all..ok...i'm gonna hang up now..bye..god bless...mmm..whatever...YOU.."

the next day, weird things start to happen..he sets his alarm at 7:00 but it rang at 6:14..his assistant's extension number is 614..he got the congress new plat number GEN614..his colleague had a new baby and the baby was 6 kilos 14 pounds..
evan ran home an ask his wife for the bibble..He read GENESIS 6:14 where it tells the story of Noah and the ark..

next day..there's a delivery to his house...TONNES OF WOODS...then he meet GOD..god ask him to built an ark..evan thinks that it was ridiculous and ignores it..later, he was shocked after knowing that he bought 8 lots of land around his housing area...and on each lot,there are tonnes of wood..

from this movie, i learn that God wont give us what u want directly..if u ask Him for patience, He will give u task that will make u patient [in evan's case, he has to built an ark]..if u ask for a happy family, he wont give u a happy family but tasks that will bring ur family closer..

GUYS...watch this movie..its great...ARK stands for "any random kindness" which can change the world in one day...AMAZING HUH??

+++BeautyFOOL+++

today, one whole day, the fool was hanging around the beauty and his in-laws...hehehehe..beauty = my baby...the FOOL = me..after they went to convest, they went to play futsal wif id, blacken and DUSTY CROW...but DUSTY CROW was just watching them playing wif a black crow on her shoulder..kihkihkih

suddenly..the FOOL realized that he has found great friends out of no where..meeting great friends are such a pleasure as the FOOL cant easily get well wif people..and not all fren can get along with the FOOL as he likes to fool around..

ID..
u were such a great fren that i have ever known..i wish MIE is still wif us..sharing all this joy we had and spending time wif us together..hope u 2 can get along well like before..

BLACKEN...
its a great pleasure to know u..mmm...can do me a favour?? can share wif me ur secret recipe of maintaining ur relationship for 10 YEARS!!!

DUSTY CROW...
cant believe i can get along with u well..the first time i met u, u were so quiet and i thought u were so serious that u wont even laugh at my jokes...but now...hahahaahah...i can see all ur teeth when u laugh!!make sure u dont lose any of them sis...

BEAUTY
u know how much i love u..i have great friends and they are urs too...let's leave all the BLOODSUCKERS and start a new one..u know what?? friends come and go..but u didnt..u were always there 4 me...thanx..u are the greatest sayang...

+++i know ur life SUCKS, so get off MINE!!+++

am i old enough to fight with people about what i like to do?? i'm big enough i think!!i have my own rights to do what i want and what i like as long as i'm not disturbing ur life..i've totally forget u a long time ago..why you keep on talking bout me on MY BACK!!! i'm doing fine with the life i've chosen and even if i'm not doing well, i wont seek for your bloody help..

i am happy with someone i've found along the way of mending my heart that you've broken!!! havent u had enough?? if u have forget about me like what you said..please dont ever mention my name..you have no rights to talk about me cuz u dont even know me!!

REMEMBER...you are the one who want me to buzz off..i had enough of begging and waiting for you to talk to me and pls understand the truth that my heart belongs to someone else right now...and all of these SHIT happens not because of her..But because of you bloody damn mouth and the fact that you cant control me anymore, LOOSER!!!

+++me,myself and i+++

today i have class at 2 til 7..mummy waits for me..now i'm waiting for her in the library..so happy to be always by her side..feels like i cant be apart from her even for a single second..but life have its ways of fulfilling our needs and wants..i guess, understanding is the most important element in this relationship..furthermore, we cant be too close in front of others here..it feels so sad to just watch her from here..

i feel so worried..i think i have a lot to cover..i've been playing and fooling around since the semester starts..met sumone yesterday..i really adores him..have a degree..have good job..he looks quite stable..i really adore him and wanna be like him..so matured and macho..hahahah

now have to study really hard to be like him..to make mummy proud of me and to take a good care of her..never been like this before..since she entered my life, she turns me into a responsible person..its time i take this life seriously..

+++Angel OF Mine+++

woke up this morning..feeling so tired..

sumone is kissing me..here and there..

i opened my eyes..hmmmmm, my sweet little angel..

another wish has been fulfilled..

my wish to see her when i first open my eyes..

my sweet little angel..

she iron my clothes..waits for me to have my bath.. PATIENTLY

my sweet little angel..

do i deserve sumone so sweet like u..

i am so lucky to have u in mylife..

my sweet little angel..

i'll wait for u today til u want me to..

dont worry..

i'll always be here waiting for u..

even if it takes the whole of my life..

my sweet little angel..

thanx for always being there for me

thanx for all your luv that u gave to me

just to let u know

that you will always be

my sweet little angel

in my heart..

JUST MINE..

+++ANGEL OF MINE+++

Love or to be love??

Lately,this question keep swirling in my mind..

Should u luv or be luv? mmm...both rite??

if u luv someone, u want him/her to luv u too, rite?

but if he/she doesn't luv u, will u just give it up??

or try hard to make them fall for u?? interesting huh..

life is not fair sumtimes..if u luv someone truly, madly, deeply

but but they didn't feel anything towards u,

can u imagine how frustrated u are?

what if sumone out there luv u so much

that they are willing to do anything for u..

which one will u go for??

the one that u love or the one that loves u??

F.R.I.E.N.D.S.

Anyone can stand by you when you are right, but a Friend will stand by you even when you are wrong...
A simple friend identifies himself when he calls. A real friend doesn't have to.
A simple friend opens a conversation with a full news bulletin on his life.
A real friend says, "What's new with you?"
A simple friend thinks the problems you whine about are recent.
A real friend says, "You've been whining about the same thing for 14 years. Get off your duff and do something about it."
A simple friend has never seen you cry. A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names. A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.
A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed. A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems. A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest. A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.
A simple friend expects you to always be there for them. A real friend expects to always be there for you!